Twas my dilemma this evening. Reached the train station and there was a young man parked up half on the pavement, looking rather stressed and asking for a pound so he could get some petrol.
Now Hounslow is not the most safe of places (if working late, or at the bar on a Friday, us overlanders walk in groups to the station, and it's well known that those brown kinda paint looking splashes on the ground are not paint.. and those 'robbery here', 'serious assault' here signs aren't that safety inspiring either, though I digress) so a parked up car and a man make you think twice.
Young lady walking near me obviously thought the same and ignored him, though I thought what the heck, it's a pound, poor man (dressed in his bright yellow safety working jacket) and looking rather panicked got the better of me. Heck he even offered to return the money to me and I must say the smile on his face in thanks was well worth my couple of quid.. just hoped he managed to find a station near by as no doubt when he got back the car would be ticketed, clamped and about to be towed away!
Now I'm not one for normally giving money to strangers on the street. Those 'homeless' that park themselves at ATM's (why on earth would I give them a tenner or heavens above a twenty pound note), or sit there with a dog or child begging for money, or even the ones that offer a flower or a small book and ask for money, and especially those charity coat wearing in your face youngsters will NOT get any money off me ever!
Though there was the Big Issue guy in Tooting Broadway. He just quietly held the magazine waiting for people to notice him, gave a fabulous smile for my pound and believe it or not almost had a people queuing up for the mag! No doubt like minded that when not pressured to give will give. Heck I always pass on non-wanted items to the charity shops, do the daily mammogram/literacy/save plants/save animals web click, do gift aid where appropriate and even donate money from my salary!
Just hope that young man managed to get his petrol and safely home.